Mother Advised Me To not Come Out to Grandma

A tricky reminiscence. When Gloria Estefan’s daughter, Emily Estefan, got here out as homosexual, she didn’t get the response she anticipated from the “Conga” singer.

“I used to be like, ‘Hey, I’m in love with this lady.’ The very first thing you mentioned was, ‘In case you inform your grandma and she or he dies, her blood is in your fingers,’” Emily, 25, tearfully recalled to Gloria, 63, on the Wednesday, October 14, episode of their household’s Fb Watch sequence, Purple Desk Speak: The Estefans. “I simply wasn’t prepared for that, as a result of I perceive my grandma was previous, however it made me really feel like no matter it’s, OK, conceal it. In order that’s the place my damage began. I’m by no means going to overlook that.”

Emily, who can be a music artist, defined to viewers that whereas she was bowled over by her mother’s response, she in the end realized that Gloria was “coming from [a place of] love, from safety.” On the time, the Grammy winner’s mom, Gloria Fajardo, was sick. Fajardo died at age 88 in June 2017.

“You’re remembering issues, as all of us are inclined to do, differently,” the “Rhythm Is Gonna Get You” songstress informed Emily in Wednesday’s episode. “I used to be attempting to guard each my ailing mom from any shock that will have an effect on her well being and Emily from something that might hurt their relationship.”

Gloria Estefan’s Daughter Says Mom Told Her Not to Come Out to Grandma
Emily Estefan and Gloria Estefan Dan Wooller/Shutterstock

Gloria admitted she later felt “remorse” that Emily by no means had an opportunity to share her story with Fajardo, whom she referred to as “controlling and set in her methods.” (Gloria and Fajardo have been as soon as estranged.)

Whereas sharing her facet of the story, the Presidential Medal of Freedom recipient mentioned she and her husband, Emilio Estefan, “had no clue” that their daughter was a lesbian, however they did “suspect [it] at some moments” when Emily was rising up.

“I keep in mind being in my bed room and I keep in mind [asking] you, ‘Mama, are you homosexual? Do you need to carry the homosexual flag? As a result of if you need, I’ll get on that parade float with you, and I’ll carry that flag,’” Gloria recalled of an early dialog she had along with her daughter.

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Gloria Estefan and Emily Estefan Fb

Emily, who has been courting Gemeny Hernandez since 2017, informed Entertainment Weekly on Tuesday, October 13, that her late grandma’s response to her sexuality stays considered one of her “greatest unanswered questions” in life.

“My grandmother and I have been so shut, however I’m actually unsure,” she informed the journal. “However that’s a part of life too — you don’t get each reply that you really want. I’m additionally studying that regrets are a waste of time.”

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